This doesn't mean that you need to talk to or flirt with every girl, but don't ignore them or treat them dismissively. You stand a much better chance of making a good overall impression if you treat girls that don't interest you just as nicely as those that do. On the other hand, self-deprecating humor (humor that makes fun of yourself) can make a girl feel comfortable with you quickly because it shows her that you have enough confidence in yourself that you can easily make fun of yourself. No girl wants to have a dude spend the entire night cutting her down with his words-even if he means it in a joking way. While light teasing may be funny at first, use it sparingly. A real, whole-hearted laugh can be a very attractive thing. Avoid fake-laughing, as that is generally pretty easy to see through.

Laugh when you genuinely think something is funny.

While dishing out funny or witty one-liners can get a girl to giggle, try embellishing your humor but commenting on your situation or environment in a funny way.

See how they deliver their jokes, but don’t memorize jokes and simply repeat them-that can come off as rather stiff and stilted. If you don’t feel like you are a naturally funny guy, watch comedians on TV or study the funny characters in movies. That will just cause a serious amount of awkwardness to ensue. But don’t expect her to openly guffaw at your jokes-and never say something like 'oh you didn’t think that was funny?' if she doesn’t laugh. Quick, witty humor that only pauses for an instant is the way to go. No matter what sort of humor you’re using, it's never good to wait for the girl to laugh.It’s good to remember that you don’t have to be funny every second, but throwing some humor into a conversation is often a great way to get a girl interested in you.

This doesn’t mean that you need to transform yourself into a Jim Carrey-like comedian, but it does mean that you need to figure out what kind of humor you are best at. Getting a girl to laugh can be a big part of getting (and keeping) her attention and winning her over.

Grab them by the eyes cool